Be proactive & not reactive

You hurt others (intentionally or unintentionally) & in return, you will get hurt. In this world, we human hurt each other. Leaving in this fallen world not just the situation is tough; dealing w/ people is tough too!

Just recently, I was sexually harassed (by words). It was so bad; I can’t concentrate on my daily schedule. It was so serious, we argued! & worst still, I work off!! I was reacted by it... not just the words that was spoken that had hurt me but that he/she, don’t feel sorry about it!! & not sincerely about it!... *sigh*… sometimes I thought to myself, maybe God wants me to be strengthen in this area. There are many nasty words spoken over me by those closest to me. How I handle it? By crying… i didn’t confront them. I have no guts to make a stand for myself. Because of this, I can’t blame people for taking me for granted as they might think I’m actually ok with those so call ‘joke’…

Since this matter had finally got into my emotion, I definitely will make a stand. Just like what God said, ‘Do not let people bully you’. Making a right stand doesn’t mean we’re defensive, but it is to let people know, you do have your own opinion & you’re not a ‘nobody’ but a somebody!...

So how to I deal with that person? I made a right choice & people around me are proud of my action. It is up to that person to act on it now. I’m very grateful by all the teaching. Tough situation really test us & it is all by His grace, we can overcome each tough ones.

Alright, enough of the serious issue. I told Jesus, I want to have a good week & I want to be happy! *big smile* I just took some shots yesterday of Milo & her boy friend! Hahhaahhhaa….h*** baby h***…..*LAUGHS*…

i’m so into blogging now… back to blogging. Angie!!, thanks to you, hehehhehe… too bad I don’t have a changih camera like yours… I try not to abandon my blog for now. *bleh*